Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.
Question: I have it easy with men, they usually approach u but with women I have been to nervous to anything. What ideas can yall give me?
Answer: I got a few quick, explosive and super-important tricks for you:
1) Hello-old-friend trick
This is where you pretend you’ve known her for a loooong time. You literally approach her as-if she’s an old buddy of yours. An acquaintance since way-back-when… a long lost friend or a neighbour from your old neighbourhood you grew up with. You literally wanna put yourself into that mindset, and approach her as if you already know her.
2) Be yourself
YES, a cliche that sounds so lame. I used to hate it when women gave out this advice. But its because I didn’t understand it. What this means is don’t TRY to be something. Don’t approach her and TRY to impress her, or struggle to find cool interesting things to say. Just relax… Be yourself. Talk as you would to a close male friend or acquaintance. Just be “normal”. Another way to translate the “be yourself” advice is “just be normal”. Don’t try to do anything fancy or cool or weird or interesting or special… Just be normal. Have a normal human-to-human conversation.
But really dude there's no reason you should be confused about any of this. If you haven't taken the quiz to see how you stack up with women yet... Click here and see what your results are on the personal dating quiz.
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