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This also applies for the men in their 30′s as well.
I notice that approaching women in places like clubs, bars, grocery stores, and etc, only seem to work for men in their young twenties.
By their mid 20′s and older, women seem to ignore the public approach.
My quick answer to this question:
You know, i’ve heard a TON of excuses guys use about not meeting women… But this is one of the more ridiculous ones. Seriously! What is your issue? There is no built in timer inside of women that says… the moment you reach 31.5 years… your attraction-mechanism needs to self-destruct… So that when a man approaches you and acts charming and happens to be your type, you no longer react you like did to guys when you were 24 years old… wtf? Seriously dude.
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well im not in that age frame
but i think it’s best to just be straightforward
not like cocky/egotistical
but like confident (nervous is fine ^.^)
and just be polite and nice
I’m 31 and to be honest like the straight foward approach; just say hi. Personally i don’t bite and don’t mind being approached in public so go for it!
I’m 31 and would love to be approached in public. It doesn’t happen as often as it used to, so any man who flirts with me while I’m out and about is great for my ego.
The best way to approach a woman in her 30s, in public, is to strike up a conversation about something you have in common at that moment. If she’s looking at grapes, ask her if she prefers green or purple grapes, then try to get a conversation going from there. If you walk up to a woman and simply ask for her phone number, you’re most likely going to be shot down. A mature woman needs to know that you’re not just interested in getting in her pants, you are interested in getting to know her mind. So strike up a conversation, make her laugh, show her your personality – before you ask her out.
naa. straight forward.. everyone been there done that.. jsut ask and look for a yes or no.