Imagine this, you’re standing at the bar, and you notice this really cute girl glancing over in your direction every few minutes. Is she interested, is she just curious? Maybe she’s looking at someone else? Do you go there or will you just embarrass yourself?
These are all good questions, UNLESS you do know how to approach women, and I’m here to show you how… Step-by-step…
1) Get into a great mood
A great example is the night I had last night. Me and my super-fun buddies walked into a club, and immediatelly started dancing, shouting and having fun with the music. We joked at each others expense, we fooled around… We commented on girls around us or made fun of dorky guys… Basically got ourselves in a great mood? Guess what? Later, when we spotted a few cute girls glancing in our direction, we just found ourselves talking to them! I know it sounds to simplistic, but that’s how it works. When you’re having fun, jumping around and just in-the-moment, you don’t have time to be anxious. You see girl, talk to girl. It comes natural. Now it is possible to stand in one place all night with a smug expression, and then out of nowhere force yourself to go hit on some girl, but that rarely works. Its best to rev yourself up to your social maximum before even spotting a cute girl!
2) Be social with the girl (eliminate rejection)
The thing that most prevents guys from approaching girls is almost deadly fear of rejection. What if I go there, put myself on the line, and she’s not interested!?! Well, here’s a trick I and all of the world’s greatest playas use… DO NOT HIT ON A GIRL. I am not saying don’t approach, I’m saying do not hit on her. You can not be rejected if you’re not hitting on her in the first place. Your goal when approaching her is to just be social, introduce yourself and get to know her and her group. The funny thing about this attitude is that women find it charming! Its the exact opposite of a horny, pushy guy who approaches with a “must get… laid… now” type of attitude. Not only are you guaranteed no rejection, you are more likely to actually score! Women love this approach of “just be social, and see where things lead”.
3) Let her seduce you
I know this goes against everything you’ve heard or read other places, but its true. Scientists have actually shown that pretty much any interaction that succeeds between men and women, it was the woman who initiated the seduction! Of course, the man usually initiates the verbal approach, he does the physical step of leaning for the kiss – yes. But it is the woman who invites it, says “go” with her signs or shows she wants this to happen. So as you’re just being social with this woman, your only goal is to just be social, and follow her lead. If she’s just keeping it social, that’s all she is, just a new friend. If she however starts hinting at something more, do more.
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