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I see all these other guys being sleazeballs and weridos approaching women ruining it for the good guys out there…I wanna know what a woman wants to hear from a guy that shes never met at a club… If this was a perfect world situation what would a woman want to hear to get swept off her feet at a club..
My quick answer to this question:
I’m about to reveal the BEST, most effective technique for approaching women in the clubs. I want you to get ready for this though… What I am about to reveal is unlike anything you’ve ever heard about approaching or meeting women. So bare with me. I want to ask you a question first…
Do you know what is the most effective way of GUARANTEEING a woman is attracted to you before you even go talk to her? No, its not your looks, clothes or style… Here’s what it is… Its being a high-social-status guy in that club. Huh!? What does that mean? Here’s what it means… Imagine walking into a club, not alone, but surrounded by half a dozen super-attractive females (think hugh-hefner walking around with hot women)… Guess what happens? The moment you walk into that club, other women want to fuck you, and guys want to befriend you. The more guys want to befriend you, the more your social status rises.
STOP, wait… WHAT? I can’t even approach women, and you’re asking me to have 6 hot chicks I’m banging before I ever enter the club? HUH!?
No… Here’s the trick… 
You don’t have to be banging them… All you need to do is have female FRIENDS. And here’s the other secret… Befriending hot women is only (oh say…) a thousand times easier than picking them up. Just join some hobby that involves a lot of hot women (like dance classes or something) and befriend them… KEY: Don’t hit on any of them!!! You’re only robbing yourself if you do that… Would you rather hit on one, and lose out on all of them if you fail.. OR… have dozens of women lusting after you when you enter a club?
Be smart and pick the latter. These 5-6 females which you befriend are OUT-OF-LIMITS. Just become their genuine, cool guy friend that they LOVE. Seriously, just give a ton of value and they will love and appreciate you.
Next, walk into a club with them… Now, half the club already wants to meet you (scientists call this “the hugh hefner effect”)… Next, simply go and approach women, but do NOT hit on them (yet). Simply walk up to women and introduce them to your friends (don’t hit on them!)… Walk up to these women, introduce yourself and your friends, ask a few questions, and move on to the next group. Don’t stick to any one group… you just want to give them a chance to know you.
Later in the night, after you’ve approached most girls in the club, just wait… Most of them will approach YOU… They now 1) Find it easy to do, since they’re not making the first move, you’ve already introduced yourself 2) Your status is through the roof now, you’re not the most attractive guy in the club. You’ve been seen talking to everyone.
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There is no way you can sweep a woman off her feet at a club. You are just as definably sleazy for asking this question – your using a preteen female demographic to answer a question you already know the answer too…. if you want to meet quality women and sweep them off their feet, do it somewhere other than a bar or club. Both men and women go there for one reason only. They just play it differently.
Cute_smartass up there is an absolute idiot. The truth is that you can find women of quality anywhere, and once you learn how to attract and meet women in one setting, you can do it anywhere. And there is absolutely nothing to feel bad about in learning the rules of attraction and how to play The Game.
I’ll just refer you an answer I gave to a question on here earlier which got best answer. Very similar premise.http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;…
And another one, in which I include a bit of life advice in my answer, along with more tips on meeting women.http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;…
Good luck
I’ll start by saying that I could hear your sincerity in your question.
Most guys are at a loss when trying to break the ice with women. Because we are constantly being approached by sleazeballs our defenses are up.
Most of the time we can spot someone who is not out there playing The Game. What we really want is a warm smile, lots of eye contact, and sincere words.
If you approach us with (Hey beautiful, care to dance) we are already on guard because the first thing you mention is our looks, in a much too general way.
We like specifics and honest approaches. What is the very first thing you noticed about her, that made you want to approach her? Was is the color she wore, her hair, or her eyes?
It can’t be about the body either. For example:
Wow, are you built nice, or you have great (whatever) puts you in the sleaze category.
Keep it real. Something like:
I couldn’t help but notice (specific). I’d like to learn more about you. Can I dance with you? will certainly make you stand out in the crowd.
Hope this helps.