Approaching women is kind of an interesting subject, because it says a lot about men. Its the point at which things are either created or broken off for good. It is at the point of approaching, that you create the opportunity for something more to happen. And this is why, in order to be successful in approaching women, you need to understand women’s needs in general. What do women want in a men, and how does it apply to approaching?

• Make her feel safe – A woman has this biological fear, that’s kind of outdated these days… But she has this fear of a man turning out to be a stalker, violent or a rapist. It doesn’t help that there’s fear-mongering organizations out there that try to increase women’s fears. The media does a good job of making women paranoid as well. So, your first job is showing that you’re safe. The way you do this, is by simply being super-friendly and super social. Do not be a “sexual threat” too early on. You’re just socializing, this is the mindset to have. Do not hit on women – unless they specifically invited you to through a ton of staring.
• Be Social – Women want a guy who’s social. It means he’s well networked, at ease around people and just an overall social guy. This really helps when you approach women. The best way to make an approach fly over well, is having been seen socializing with everyone prior to the approach! If you walk into a party, and you go talk to and socialize with everyone in that room… when you approach that cutie, she will be only, oh a 100 times more receptive to your approach. Women notice how social you are. And it also makes them feel safer.
• Be A friend – What this means is… do not go into seduction too fast. This is what women mean by ‘want to be friends first’. It doesn’t mean you need to pretend to be her girlfriend for months before you make a move. It simply means you do not hit on her in the approach. The approach is only to “socialize” and befriend. This can be anywhere from 5 minutes to 3 days… But the point is, you want her to show the signal first. That’s how the human mating ritual works. The woman displays the “go” signal first, before the male proceeds. Hitting on a woman before she’s shown this signal is just an exercise on insanity.

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