Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.
Question: It’s had for me to approach a woman. It’s the first step everything else is good for me. Just walking up and thinking of something to say or signs that a woman gives you to let you know to walk up to her.
I need help!!
Answer:
So, you are saying that you are OK after the approach. If you are confident about that, great!
First of all, you don’t need signs from a women. Sometimes you will get signs, but many times you will not. You focus on approaching her irregardless of her signals.
It is best to approach her sincerely with something like “Hey, I like you, and I would like to get to know you.” Remember that the most important thing is to just start walking toward her with a blank mind and focus on having nice open body languange and a confident voice tone. That is much much more important than what you say.
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This is hard for all of us. What I’d suggest is a smooth approach, just think over what you’re gunna do before you do it and try to act confident but shy at the same time.
Like a human being? Like someone you’re not afraid to approach? Like you would your best friend? Like a confident man… I like the sound of that. If you want her attention, wait until she’s done doing whatever and say “Hey..” then ask her whatever you wanted. If she gets nervous/shy and walks away or, cuts you off, just run after her saying “Hey wait! I’ve got more questions!” and laugh or something. Just act confident. Girls love it. What’s funny is the more you act confident the more you’ll feel confident. (So backwards, right?)
well a lot of guys mess up by thinking to much. so when you approach women, don’t think just do. Act like she is your best friend. Talk to her and treat her like a best friend. Small talk that’s all. No pickup lines dork! Be yourself, women love confidence. To get confident keep approaching different women. Just try to get them to smile at first then once your good at that, next few women you approach try to get their number or go on a date right from there. (Practice makes perfect) so do it 100 time if you have to. Smile never get mad or sad. But when you smile don’t look crazy you want to come off as friendly and trusting. Always make eye contact and stand up striaght.
You don’t have to think of something to say. Once you make eye contact. Start approaching in less then 3 seconds. This way you won’t think and hesitate. When you hesitate you become nervous. Women can read body language way better then we can. They can tell who is confident and who is a wuss like that. So try to be more confident bro.
try to work on your flirting and being funny. Good luck
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