Here’s another question on approaching, from a guy who’s obviously not taken my quiz on approaching, otherwise he would know THE ANSWER. But i’m gonna answer him below anyway.

I’ve been studying and practicing seduction for 4 months now, using methods taught by ross jeffries, david deangelo, etc. I do good with my game, once i get started.
There’s just one obstacle: I have difficulty approaching hot women when I 1st meet them. Any suggestions that could help me and others like me??

My quick answer to this question:

Sure, here’s the best held secret in super-accelerating your progress in being able to approach women, whether you use deangelo’s techniques, your own, or whatever… Just stop focusing on JUST women.

Its that simple. Change your focus from approaching hot women, to talking to everyone! I know it sounds counterintuitive, but its true. Learning to be an overall social guy who just talks to everyone in his way is like… 10 times easier than just focusing on hot women.

Number one: You are less pressured Number two: women love social guys… If she saw you befriend the bouncer, the store clerk or the barmen and her ugly friend first… She feels 10 times more attracted to you, before you even TALK TO HER.

Its SOOO much easier to A) Approach people you don’t have much invested in (like unattractive women) B) Approach that hot women she’s been eye-ing you for the past 30 minutes and waiting for you to approach her, and that WILL happen after she sees you befriending everyone in her group and the entire place.

But really dude there's no reason you should be confused about any of this. If you haven't taken the quiz to see how you stack up with women yet... Click here and see what your results are on the personal dating quiz.

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