I’ve got some easy secrets and tips for you on approaching women during the day. You see, it can be done. And yes, there’s a ton of guys who get away with it successfully. So how come you don’t know any?

Because these guys are rare, maybe one in a hundred guys knows how to do this right. You see, there are a set of interesting secrets to approaching women in public or during the day… that if you know, approaching women becomes easy. If you don’t know them, you’re unlikely to ever master it. So here they are:

1) Irrational Fear

No, I’m not talking just about your fear and anxiety in approaching. Women are actually brainwashed by the media and all kinds of “women’s organizations” that any man is a potential rapist, killer etc, etc… The fact that you have a bigger chance of being hit by an asteroid than a random guy being a murderer, escapes most women.

All is not bleak though, fear not. I’m not trying to dissuade you from approaching women in public. I am dissuading you from hitting on women in public. You see, the number one thing that sets off that “stranger-danger” alert is if you act all nervous, stilted and weird around her when you do approach her, like you’ve got something to hide. Now, since she’s nervous herself, she can’t notice its because you’re shy about the approach itself.

2) Approach everyone trick

So, what always works is what I call the “approach everyone” trick. With this, you actually just talk to anyone, anywhere. The old guy on the line at the bank where you comment on the waiting times today… The young skaterboys playing with some camera that you happen to also own, so you comment on how great it is…

This way… What will happen is that you will become so social, so natural at approaching people, at talking to people in public. So… when a hot woman happens to be standing next to you on the pedestrian walk, playing with her cellphone – you’ll just automatically say something. I mean, by now, its automatic to you. The fact its a hot woman makes no difference to you, and you’ll be just as natural in the conversation.

I know it sounds all new-agey and stuff, but it works… Women can literally sense when you’re just that kind of guy who’s just being social with everyone, and instead of the instinct to be defensive and weary, their instinct to be social kicks in.

This one works especially well. Its where you walk up to a woman as-if you already know her. I mean you genuinelly have to act it out and convince yourself you’re in a movie, playing out a scene of greeting or saying hi to an acquintance. Just walk up to her and be like “heey, how have ya been” or “how’s it going”… Or just start talking about whatever is in the enviroment just like you would to someone you already know. Like if its the bus-stop, just casually ask, like you would your friend “So, off to work?”… But you really have to get the right tonality and look as if talking to a friend. Worst thing that can happen is she says “do I know you?”… In which case you go “oooh sorry, I mistook you for a coworker/friend/relative/maria/jennifer/whatever”… The sneaky thing is that rarely happens… Most of the time you just end up conversing as if you already know each other. That’s part of the human social instinct. And even if she goes “wait, how do I know you”, if you use the excuse about mistaking her for someone, she will smile, and guess what? She’ll still be friendly and continue chatting with you!