Have you noticed how most guys suck at approaching women? There’s a select few lucky guys who seem to “have it” and women always respond well to them. Most guys however play the numbers game. They annoy, bother and creep many random women, until one happens to say yes. The reason for the success of first group is the same as the failure of the latter.
The guys who mostly get bad reactions from women all tend to make some or all of these ten mistakes I’m about to show you. The guys who seem to just naturally be good with women? They avoid all ten of these mistakes!
Mistake Number One – Hitting On Women
I know this might be confusing to you, since you think approaching women is the same thing as hitting on them. That is the mistake! If you treat every woman you approach as someone you need to get a number, kiss or hook up with, you will creep them out. If however your attitude is that “I’m just being social”, women will love you, and they will hit on you! They will respond well, smile, and flirt.Mistake Number Two – Not Preparing
Now, guys tend to take this to extremes. Most guys either hope they’ll just naturally think of something to say when they see the ONE, or they go ahead and memorizes hundreds of routines and openers and lines… These are both equally bad. All you need to do is have a few default ways of starting a conversation. In fact, you need to just practice approaching people in situations, and starting small talk. If you want ideas, get some books on amazon on how to do small talk and network. When done right, you should end up being the person who just chats up people everywhere he goes, and some of these women just happen to be beautiful women. You chat them up the exact same way as some old guy in that same situation! Remember, you’re not hitting on them from the approach, you’re just starting small talk. Leave the seduction and flirting for later in the conversation.
Mistake Number Three – Only Approaching Beautiful Women
Let me just be frank with you… Its almost impossible to achieve this feat. You can’t be a guy who talks to nobody all the day, and then see a scorching hot, beautiful woman, and approach her and be all charming and smooth. Some guys have wasted decades trying to get this skill, only to finally admit it can’t be done this way. You have to become the social, charming guy all around. Approach everyone! Again, you’re not hitting on people, you’re just being social and making small talk. You make a funny comment to anyone standing in line at the coffee shop. You start small-talking to whoever is in the elevator, or next to you in the super-market. This will develop your charm and sociability to an amazing point.
