How Do I Get More Confidence To Approach Women When I Don’t Have Much Experiance Approaching Them.?

Here is another cool question from yahoo answers. Check it out and see if it resonates with you.

I believe i could have more confidence approaching women if I had more experiance, how would you suggest i get more experiance and confidence approaching them?

My quick answer to this question:

Ya, its that dreaded catch 22, right? Unless you have experience approaching women, you can’t approach women confidently right? If you tried to approach a woman somewhere now, you’d prolly make a fool out of yourself, since you don’t have much experience right? But how do you get the experience then!!!?!?!?

Here’s the sneaky secret I have for you here :) There is a way to get the experience in a very fun and cool way… How? Simple, do NOT make it about women! A guy who goes around approaching random women is what’s known as a creep. A guy who goes around talking to, socializing and befriending everyone is know as a… COOL GUY. Its that simple :)

Make it your goal to get good at meeting, talking and befriending people. Approach EVERYONE and pretend you’re the unofficial host of the place. If its a club, walk around asking people how they like the place, and if everything is cool with them. Introduce everyone to everyone. You can either get all those different books from amazon on “working the room” and “networking” and “small talk” or see some of my teachings here.

But really dude there's no reason you should be confused about any of this. If you haven't taken the quiz to see how you stack up with women yet... Click here and see what your results are on the personal dating quiz.

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Chucklez The Clown September 27, 2009 at 2:20 pm

You don’t need lots of experience in order to succeed in approaching women. There are many ways in order to do so.
I found this site which could help you a lot towards women.
Good luck!

Mika September 27, 2009 at 2:33 pm

Just go for it,don’t waste time being apprehensive.No one has game,its a myth.Its simple,the more girls you approach the more you will get,PERIOD.If you lack confidence,STOP IT!

dave February 11, 2012 at 3:45 am

If I lack confidence, stop it? Just imagine trying to have a conversation with HER!

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