I’m not sure if you’ve realized this, as you probably haven’t… But every time that you did approach a woman, you saw a positive fantasy in your head. You saw the interaction going well. At least, if you approached effortlessly. You could have approached women, even without this positive fantasy, but only if you forced or willed yourself into it.
You want approaching women to be effortless. That’s what I’m all about teaching you. Not how to force yourself to approach tons of chicks till one says yes… But living a life where you just spontaneously find yourself approaching women during your day, without even thinking about it.
Back to those fantasies. What I mean by this is, the short little thoughts that flash through your mind right before approaching a woman, or a group of women. These little mind-movies determine whether you’ll do an action or not. If when you see a woman, your mind flashes an image of her cringing at you, rejecting you, or treating you badly – you won’t do it! Unless you force yourself, and again, I don’t recommend this.
And in fact, this is why I like my effortless methods better. They work so much better, for so many more guys. The method is simply this… Visualize and imagine what you want your approaches to look like. Just sit at home, and imagine your ideal day. Imagine how, its just part of who you are. Whenever you are out and about, you just find yourself talking to random women, and they respond with these hyooooooge happy grins. And you don’t even think about it, its just who you are.
Now, this won’t work overnight. Don’t do this exercise just once, and if you don’t find yourself approaching women tomorrow – then give up. It doesn’t work that way. Just keep doing these visualizations until you believe them. Do these, until you find yourself manifesting them in the real world. You don’t even have to approach women.
The first sign they’re working, is if when you see a woman, your mind immediately starts playing mind-movies of success. Like you see a girl on the street, and you immediately see yourself walking up to her, being all charming, and her loving you. This is when you know your home-visualizations are starting to transform your mind. If you however, see a girl on the street, and your mind starts going like this “Oh, wow, girl, why am I not getting positive visions of approaching her? Oh wow, this method sucks, this is crap”… Well, you’re not there yet 
You need to do some more visualizations at home, until there is no doubt in your mind left.
