I’ve seen both surveys about this, and interviewed many girls myself. Apparently, one of the top places that girls expect to meet and be approached by guys is in clubs and bars. The truth is however… That most don’t! In fact (I know this is going to sound weird), most women leave a club alone, thinking something must be wrong with her. She either will not get approached all night, or only get approached by creepy, drunk or pushy guys.

What she doesn’t know is that its not her… Well, I mean it is since she doesn’t know how to help guys along… But its not because she’s unattractive or ugly as she believes.

So why am I telling you all this?

My goal is to let you know that its normal and fine if you aren’t meeting and attracting women in clubs. In fact, outside of the movies, very few guys are good at it. Most guys will spend an entire life without ever even once meeting even one girl in such a situation!

Now, I am not telling you this to dissuade you from approaching girls in clubs. In fact, I’m here to show you how to do it. But, the very first thing to take into consideration is that you need to let go of the guilt and stress. If you feel like a loser for not being able to do it, guess what? You’ll keep on not doing it! The very first step is to understand that its ok, relax, and commit to learning how to do it.

My best, secret way to meeting, attracting and approaching girls in clubs.

I have worked with hundreds of guys employing hundreds of different strategies in meeting women in clubs. I’ve tried dozens of methods myself! After all that research and experience I have come down to what I believe is the single best and most effective strategy for meeting girls in clubs. It guarantees no rejection, like EVER! It guarantees effortless, fun and easy meeting of women… And it happens to be something women love themselves.

So what is this strategy? I call it the “social rockstar” method. The idea is that you actually just decide to be social. You are not picking up girls. You are not trying to get married, get a one night stand or impress women. In fact, the number one complaint that women have is that guys are too pushy. They try to make things happen. “Why can’t a guy just relax, be friends first, and if it happens, that’s great”. A lot of guys have mis-interpreted this and become asexual nice guys…

That’s not what she means! What she means is don’t push, have no outcome and just be social. When she says “be friends”, she doesn’t mean be her asexual gay friend. What she means is chill, relax, flirt but don’t push for things to happen. In essence… With my strategy, I will walk into a club and start talking to everyone from the very start. I’ll small-talk with the bouncer… I will go around and say hi to a few people and introduce myself. As I pass by hot women, I will just say “Hi, how are you”, and move on!

The reason this works is that they always react positively! Why wouldn’t they? You’re just being social, and moving on. You’re the “social rockstar” of the place. You’re not hitting on them… What then tends to happen is they all start developing interest and curiosity about you. Some of them will re-initiate you, some of them will stare at you and demand you approach them again. But in essence, it works! The irony is by not hitting on them, you actually get women to beg that you hit on them!

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