Hey you. Yes you! Are you interested in learning how to approach women? Well, are you in a treat or what, as I’m about to give you all my secrets!

So imagine this – you’re standing there at a bar, and from the side of your eyes you see this really cute girl who’s walking by you. You know you have to act now, or lose her forever. If you’re like most guys, your mind starts racing “what do I say?”, “But I can’t stop here while she’s walking, that’s rude”, “oh but wow, what if I never get a chance to ever meet her again”, “oh, wait, she looked my way, I think she did? She’s interested?”, “no, maybe she was just looking around”.

And if, again, you’re like most guys… By the time you’re done battling your rationalizations inside your head… She’s gone. She leaves. You’ve missed your opportunity. And now, you feel like something is wrong with you.

There is good news however! I have been this guy! I have helped hundreds of guys who’ve been through this as well. I’ve spent an entire decade studying the process of approaching women, and now I am ready to share my secrets with you! Do you want to learn my secrets? If so, here they are, my top 4 secrets:

Be Exciting

I know this sounds all new-age, but its true. If go out to that bar with a bunch of friends who are fun, exciting positive people who like to dance, banter, joke around, what will happens is that you will be so busy partying and jumping around that you don’t have time for doubt.

I mean, I know it sounds weird, but that really is how it works out. When you are just being that super-duper social guy. When you are in that mood, you don’t even think about anything, you just do it. When a girl walks by, you just find yourself walking up to her, and making conversation, without thinking about it.

Have No Goals

You know what makes a guy creepy? Caring too much about being rejected. I know it sounds kind of ironic, but if you’re worried if you’ll get rejected or not, you end up acting all weird and creeping her out.

Like… Ever heard women explaining how they met some guy. Isn’t it funny how the phrase they always use is “it just kinda happened”? You’re wondering how can things just happen? Its not like she tripped over a stone ended up flying through the air, and dropped on his lap right? Well, what she means by this is that there was no formal attempt by either party to make anything out of the interaction. You were just being social. This is what she wants. Walk up to women, and just be social. If things progress to something sexual or romantic, that’s great. But this is not your outcome or goal.

Never Get Rejected, Get Tons Of Friends

The really great thing about what I talked in step 2, is that it completely removes any rejection. If you apply that mindset, no woman anywhere will reject you. You will walk up to women, just be social, chat a bit, and if it doesn’t work out, you’ll just part your ways as friends.

Now, you might be thinking “but wait, isn’t that rejection, didn’t she reject you!?”. Well, technically she didn’t escalate on the opportunity so yes in some way. But when you do this, it feels different. Its more like asking a friend to go to the cinema, and the friend saying he has a huge project he has to finish by the morning. You don’t see it as personal, and you’re still friends. This is kind of the same.

Make Some Hot Friends

This is by far my most favorite way of introducing your attractiveness. You see, women have some evolutionary glitches. They are programmed to get attract to a guy who they see has female friends (the more, the better). With the method I introduced you to in step 2, you not only eliminated rejection, you also get tons of new friends! When you walk up to a woman just wanting to socialize… You either hit it off and do more… Or you end up as friends.

The amazing benefits of being a woman’s friends are countless. Any time you’re out with her, you get to introduce yourself to all the hot women she says hi to. You are seen (like I said) as being much cooler, just for being together with her. And then, she actually wants to help you succeed with women? She will help you pick out clothes, set you up with women, tell you which women are interested in you, give you tips…

And that’s how to make approaching super-simple. Be sure to re-read this article because there’s a lot in it, its worth going over once more. Then go out and apply it and let me know how it goes, ok?

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