How Do You Approach Hot Women?

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I lost my game recently
and I dont know how to approach women and keep a conversation going
before it was no problem
but now iam in college and I suck ***
:’(
why jesus why lol
any tips?

My quick answer to this question:

I have the simplest and best answer for you dude :) Its up to you to apply it :) Heck, what I’m about to tell you will not only shoot you back to the top of your game, any guy can take it, apply it, and get to top-game in a super-short time, even if they’ve never had game in their life, like ever.

So how do you do it? How do you start approaching hot women, easily, effortlessly and effectively? Don’t.

This is the point where you sau: “WHAT? Your solution to approaching hot women is to don’t do it? wtf?”…

Yes. And here’s what I mean by this -  Its kinda sneaky ;)

See… The best way to get awesome at getting attraction from hot women is to master TWO things 1) Social status (popularity) and 2) Indifference.

The first one simply means that if a woman sees you talking to everyone in the room, with everyone loving you and just genuinelly enjoying your company… she’s only like 100x more likely to be attracted to you. This is called the rockstar effect and has been proven by science many times.

The second one is about the fact that hot women are most attracted to the guy who isn’t giving them too much attention. She’s bombarded with needy guys trying to get her attention, love and approval ussually, so when a super cool, attractive guy walks into her life, and he wants nothing from her, in fact he’s indifferent – she feels this amazing urge to get his attention, to prove she’s worthy of him. Its almost like, why is he not interested in me like every other guy!?!?

Enough theory. So what does this look like in practice? Its quite simple really. All you do is focus on approaching EVERYONE… The young, the old, the male, the female. You talk to, befriend and charm everyone, everywhere you go… except the hotties… For example if its a work conference, introduce yourself and talk to at length to everyone in every group, and charm and make them all laugh… EXCEPT for the hotties… Them, you just give them formal attention… Almost like a formality. Wait for it… In no time, the hotties will get impatient and try to desperately get your attention. Wait until they’re super desperate and trying to get your attention like a little child, this is where you move things forward. But until then, just remain formal… Feel free to talk to her ugly friend and kid around, as the hotties looks on in disbelief :)

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D T October 7, 2009 at 10:06 pm

Go up to her make small talk, maybe ask her for a number set up a date then once you get to know her go to the movies and go from their…

Oscar C October 7, 2009 at 10:14 pm

Dang dude, the exact opposite happened to me. College is opened me up. But getting back to your problem, practice makes perfect. Before you go to a girl that you like or think is hot, think up some conversation starters. Just have some thoughts about what you wanna say before you actually aproach them. I know how it is though man, sometimes I still kind of freeze up and shoot blanks(my mind goes blank).

Asian Invasion October 7, 2009 at 10:42 pm

Just be yourself. Act confident but not cocky. Ask about them, show interest.

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