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Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.
Question:
How to approach a woman that is older than me? This woman that I know is older than me shes 35 Im 19 how would I approach her? any pointers things to make sure I dont do wrong?
My answer:
First of all, let me tell you that you need to not see this as any different than approaching other women. Look, if you act that it is weird to approach an older women because you are young, she is going to feel it.
There are definitely differences to approaching older women. But, the difference is that it is somewhat easier than approaching a younger woman. Don’t act like you don’t deserve her, or like you’re to young for her. Act cool like you would with a woman your age.
It is smart that you treat an older women with more class and maturity. So, that means you can still be playful with them, but only in a mature classy way.
Approach them directly and sincerely. They are too old to play games that young girls play. They will appreciate a nice compliment on their beauty.
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you don’t have a chance in hell…
appraoch her cautiously, then throw a net on her and release her into the wild before the zoo catches you
Don’t tell her, you’re still going to school and don’t tell her you think she’s a MILF
Unless you already know that she’s a cougar (ie. older woman who seeks young men for non-committal sexual relationships), then don’t even bother.
just be yourself
If she is married leave it alone! If not, tell her she is so hot.
Approach her the same way you would approach a woman your own age?
uh dont even try honestly
Tell her that she is beautifull alot, make her feel wanted and use all of your time and money on her lol
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Wow, that’s ambitious of you! I think, if anything, she’ll appreciate that you’re willing to risk judgement and/or rejection by approaching a woman much older than yourself. I guess just avoid saying anything too 19 year old…if that makes sense. Remember that she is older and has an older mindset (I’m assuming) so just keep that in mind when you talk to her. Good luck. Oh..and don’t ask her out for drinks, cause you can’t go do that.
Approach her like you’re the shit because you are. Approach her naturally, as though she wasn’t even worth a half-second of your time, but you decided to talk to her anyways because she looked shiny. Then gently and gradually let more and more of your interest show.
Eventually, lead her out into the woods and paint a small, abandoned shack with her innards- videotaped, of course, so that the authorities have something to laugh about during the otherwise very sad, solemn trial in 8 months.
If the isn’t married then tell her the thing you want to do to her, or with her….long walks on the beach, dinner and dancing, her falling asleep in your arms….
Oh who are we kidding! You want to bone her! plain and simple. You want to see her naked and have sex with her, from behind, infront of a window…if you know what i mean
haha it wont work
let tell her know whats eating you up and stop wondering about