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How do women want to be approached? Or how can i talk to a woman at a club where everyone is appraoching her and not come out as too desperate or creepy. Eventually id like to get a number, but maybe dance or chat first. What are some good approaches that I can use where i dont come off too strong. I been up front and polite and both times i get mixed feed back sometimes good and sometimes not so good. Any advice?

My quick answer to this question:

Do you want the SINGLE best held secret on how to approach a woman at a club, and be seen by her as a charming, awesome, cool guy and not a creepy guy? WARNING: this is something you’ve probably not heard by anyone else, so get ready for this secret.

The best way to not appear creepy to a woman in a club is to NOT “target her”. Do not make her a prize to be won over… OK STOP… I know that sentence confused you like “huh, whatcha talkin bout?”. Here’s what I mean… The word creepy, or the feeling of creepiness that women get is when guys “want” something from them.

Solution? Go into a club with the ONLY goal of MEETING people. Your goal is not to get her number, its not to get her in bed… None of those things. Just make it your goal to approach, befriend and get to know as many attractive women as you can. You’ll be surprised how approachable even the hottest women are when they can tell you’re just being social. And trust me, they can tell! They can smell if you’re being social or if you have an agenda like “I want your numbers”.

Now, is there anything wrong with wanting a woman’s number? No, not at all. But women despise the idea of a guy having pre-determined the outcome, without even having talked to them. Me personally? I don’t find anything wrong with it, just different biology. But if you want to be successful with women, you have to turn that part off.

Just go and meet and befriend and genuinely get to know women, and LET THINGS happen on their own. Trust me, if you’re charming, funny, cool, SHE will let you know IF you should and when to make the next move. So your goal is befriending, and reading her signs of interest. That’s it!

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