Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.
Question:
How do you approach woman? if i see a girl that i like just say on the street how do i know she wants me to approach her and what intro should i use?
My answer:
Very good question. I get so many superficial questions on pickup lines, knowing that the guys who ask the questions don’t even have the courage to go and approach a stranger. Let this be a rule for all of you. If you can’t approach a woman with any line, then don’t ask for pickup lines, because your fear is your problem, not the line.
Now onto your question. First of all, most of the time women won’t give you signals that they want you to approach them. But, in order to maximize that, you have to look women you like in the eye directly and survive the pressure when you are looking at each other for some seconds and you are wanting to automatically turn away your look. But don’t! Don’t look away first, let her do it. Keep looking even though the tension is there.
Here is an easy rule for you: if she looks at you for more than a second, she likes you!
Now, onto the approach. So, even if you don’t manage to look each other in the eyes, you still go and approach her (if you like her of course). In daytime, you won’t get so many eye invitations from women.
To effectively approach her, you first have to stop her directly, this is the most important thing. You come in front of here slowly and with a smile you deliver a line like “Hey, excuse me, I was looking at you and I find you very attractive.” After that, you introduce yourself and then it’s all up to you.
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Go straight to her face, whip out your wang, and say “Interested?”
Generally, when a woman is on the street, she is not there looking to be approached or picked up.
If you really absolutely feel you must talk to a stranger on the street, keep it brief, polite, and learn to take no for an answer.
Something like ‘Excuse me miss, I don’t mean to be so forward, but you look lovely and I was wondering if you’d like to get a coffee/I could have your number/whatever’ is fine.
And if she says no, apologize and walk away. This includes a non-verbal no, such as walking away or giving you a disgusted look.
In general though, it’s not the best form to just approach women on the street. If we want to talk to you, we will.
Man I have no idea on those kinds of situations. I can’t think of anything decent to say to a woman in public places such as malls, markets or streets. Now if were talking about a place where you will see them everyday like the workplace or college then I can think of a number of ways.
U dont use intros,move lines, rap lyrics none of that.
Women like it when ur naturally funny and when u have swagger/self confidence. Now u be the judge of that. Do u make ur friends laugh and keep a straight face cuz u didnt think u were funny? Do girls eyes get stuck on u like “there is something about u”…. r u attractive and act accordingly?
Be urself. Tryin to hard is a big turn off. Just talk to her the same way u talk to ur mom or dad. Everything else wont take u too far.
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