Some dude from yahoo answers had a cool question. Now, its obvious he hasnt taken my secret quiz, but ignore that, and focus on his question, and how I answer it.
Question: Looking for a little guidance on approaching an attractive woman when she is with a group of friends? Thanks
Answer: Its easy Man. Its really, really easy to do man!
All you have to do when approaching an attractive woman when she is with her friends, a big large group of friends is to NOT HIT ON HER… I know… You’re now saying, but… but… how am I supposed to get together with her if I don’t flirt or hit on her?
Its simple, there’s time for that, you gotta think a little longer-termish… See… when a girl is with her friends, they are going to be very protective of her, and some are even going to be jealous… What you want to do… is… Approach the GROUP… Approach the entire group, get to know them, introduce yourself, and befriend everyone in the group. What will happen is that once you’re welcome by the group, if she’s interested, she’ll definitely feel great about hitting on you.
Trust me on this, if a girl likes you, and you’re liked by her group, she WILL hit on you and flirt with you… Even if she’s shy, she’ll find a way to make her interest known… and hey, by befriending the group, you get more popularity and more people that you’re social with… That’s always a bonus, trust me. Even if that cute girl doesn’t turn out well… By knowing and being friendly with her entire group it’ll open up a ton of new possibilities with them, they will introduce you to other cute girls in the future.
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If she is with her friends and not a bunch of guys that is usually I sign that she is looking for someone….Just be cool about it and casually work your way into the circle. But if they turn away or you get the akward back turn then definetly move on…no one likes a creeper
Its perfectly fine, I think it shows more
confidence, and it makes her feel good
she’ll be like “wow, he noticed me out
of all my friends.”
Well, we travel in packs for protection from a variety of things. However, first, catch her eye, then if she smiles and hold eye contact for a few seconds, mosey on over and strike up a conversation.
It would be good for you to have a few of your friends with you as well, this way it ends up being a group thing, not just trying to single out one girl from her friends.
i think that it would make me more comfortable if i was with my friends when a guy approached me